Navigating Mother’s Day After a Separation or Divorce
As we approach Mother’s Day, our family law team has compiled some advice to help those who are experiencing their first Mother’s Day after a separation or divorce. We understand that this can be a challenging time due to the shift in family dynamics, and we hope these suggestions will provide some guidance.
Plan Ahead: Start planning the celebration well in advance. This could involve coordinating schedules or organising special activities. A well-thought-out plan can help ensure a smooth and enjoyable day for everyone involved.
Prioritise Time with the Mother: If possible, arrange for the children to spend the day with their mother. Communicate these plans early to alleviate any concerns and build anticipation.
Encourage Expression of Love: Help and encourage the children to express their love and appreciation for their mother. This could be through handmade cards, small gestures of care like making her a cup of tea or breakfast in bed or planning to play a game together.
Involve the Children in Planning: Ask the children how they would like to celebrate Mother’s Day. This empowers them and ensures that the day reflects their desires and interests.
Check School Events: It’s worth checking with your children’s school or kindergarten to see if there are any Mother’s Day events. Participating in your child’s celebration can be a wonderful experience.
Remember, these efforts are not just about one day, but about shaping the future through creating new traditions and positive experiences and memorable moments.
Author: Sanaz Naimi Roshan